Sometimes we feel overwhelmed by the accumulation of
negative things that happen to us. Everything goes wrong at once. For some
strange reason sometimes life is like that. Most of the time we can only keep
thinking negative things that are going to backfire causing more problems.
What most people do is to believe things that are transient
and resolve to be alone, it's just a matter of waiting. This is a serious
mistake and that doing nothing is not the best solution.
It is a law fairly obvious but not everyone is when things
get ugly. Below is an example of how it might work this law:
Who has not done that is stuck in traffic for a long time,
even hours wasting valuable time. Most people only complained, he will blame
the authorities, traffic or bad luck for choosing that route.
But if we apply the law of the variety, rather than focusing
on the problem we will focus on finding the positive part of the problem.
Let's start thinking like being stuck in traffic is
converted into an opportunity . The first thing we could do is to think that
another route could take in the future. You also have to think of ways to take
advantage of this apparent time lost. If you like audiobooks, might be a good
idea while listening to one traffic flows.
What if you hear one on how to increase your productivity or
one on how to improve your relationships? There are many good free downloadable
audio books online.
You can use this time to give a quick overview of the tasks
remaining to be done and have to start planning as will complete. Think about
other issues and focus on how to fix them. The point is to look for positive
things from adversity.
This article is a good complement to my other article: Focus
on the solution and not the problem to deal with problems from other perspectives
that may not even know.
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